[Healing] is about letting go of what is familiar but harmful, finding the best parts of yourself, and making a leap—with no guarantee of safety or praise.

- resmaa menakem, My GRandmother’s hands.


You wonder if anyone truly sees what you’re going through.

Maybe you’re here because grief is hitting harder than you expected, or the weight of always being the one who holds everything together has finally caught up with you. You’re exhausted, overwhelmed, and struggling to figure out what to do next.

Maybe your inner dialogue sounds like…

  • “I don’t have time to grieve. Everyone still needs me.”

  • “I feel guilty for struggling—I should be handling this better.”

  • “I don’t want to answer my mom’s calls because I know it’s just going to be more drama.”

  • “I’m always the one checking in on everyone, but who’s going to check in on me?”

  • “I don’t even know what I need—I’ve never had time to think about it.”

You’ve spent your whole life carrying your family, taking care of others, and keeping things under control. But you don’t have to do it alone anymore.

Meet Karen Hernandez, LICSWA

You’re already stronger than you think you are.

My style

Healing requires compassion for ourselves. We find compassion in understanding why we’re struggling in the first place.

The way I work is deeply rooted in equity, relationships, and values. We’ll identify what’s important to you and use that to guide what we do together. We’ll look at the patterns that have shaped your relationships—family, culture, past experiences—and find ways to shift them so they can begin to work for you instead of against you.

As a woman of color myself, I’ve often walked through challenges similar to my clients and can offer support grounded in real experience. This is all part of why I became a therapist—I want to provide the kind of support that wasn’t available to me earlier in life. I take an eclectic approach, blending DBT, CBT, ACT, and SFBT based on what fits you best (but I won’t be throwing acronyms and “therapy speak” at you). Our sessions aren’t rigid—I go with the flow rather than sticking to a set structure or worksheets.

I often think of myself as the kind of support your mother or father couldn’t be—because of their own pain, their own limitations, or simply the circumstances of life. I hold space for the grief that comes with that, while also helping you build something different for yourself. You don’t have to follow the same path. You don’t have to repeat the same relationships. And you don’t have to prove your pain in order to be worthy of care.

In our work together, we make space for the things that feel hard to say out loud. We explore uncomfortable truths, not to dwell in them, but to learn from them—because insight is what creates change.

My guiding principles

Social Justice & Inclusion

My goal is for therapy to be a safe space for every identity and experience that makes up who you are.

Empowerment & Growth

We all find our strength in different ways—religion, family, community. Let’s find out what path you want to take.

Compassion

You did the best that you were capable of doing at that time. The person you’ve been has gotten you to where you are.

Culture

Your culture developed by all those around you are made up of pieces of those around us and the places that connect us. Our goal in life is to figure out which ones we want to carry with us.

Grief

Relationships

Training & Education


  • Master’s in Social Work – Boise State University

  • Associate Licensed Independent Clinical Social Worker (LICSWA)

  • Trainings in Trauma and Grief